Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Hari I will miss u a lot!

PROLOGUE: Hari came to hyderabad from bangalore for vacation and was leaving. It was AUG-15 10.30PM.


Hari boarded the bus. It was time to bid good-bye. I felt something. Something deep in my heart. Was it a kick or a pinch? It probably was a bit of both and something more. Tears flowed into my eyes waiting to come out and drop onto my cheeks. But, they did not. Probably I held them back. It was a very tough moment. We lived almost every hour together for atleast two years. We ate together. Be it day or night. It really was not easy especially when I knew that it would be months before we meet again. I was helpless. I could not go with him. I could not stop him. He had to go. All I could do was stand there and watch him go away. Time was stealing all those moments between usand I could not do any thing about it.This kicked me even harder and it did right in the gut
I knew for sure that even if i opened my mouth words would not come out in that pain. I took out my mobile and typed a message. It read like this:"this time i dont know why but i feel very strongly that i will miss you more than ever.love you mama.happy journey. i will stay here for somemore time." I did not bother if the sentences were syntactically correct. I was frantically searching for words that could convey my feelings. These were the only words I could find. The bus had not started yet. He got off the bus and came to me. We exchanged a nice warm hug. For a few seconds I felt better and this feeling ended along with the hug. We then told eachother "good-bye mama" but, we did not mean it.We didnot want to go but... I waited till he got back into the bus. He went to his seat and waved his hand as I waved to him. I could not stay there. I fail to understand how my walking away before the bus started would reduce my pain but I thought it would and did it. Neither he nor I talked about the message. We probably didnot have the courage or probably there was no need.
As i walked back,those inseparable memories reeled before me. Those nights we(I,nikhil mohan and hari) spent in my home.Those lunches and dinners we had together.(We even ate in a single plate.)Those endless discussions we had in cafeterias etc.. All these moments are special in their own way. We donot share the same bloodline but we have the same shadow. We cared for eachother and most importatly we loved eachother (unconditionally). We could (and can)forgive eachothers mistakes without any complaints. The best thing about us three is that we are always together however far we may stay from eachother.
Nikhil Mohan, please come back to hyderabad soon. I really miss you. I cannot drink tea in 'victoria cafe' all alone without gossip. We(3) may really miss eachother but we have enough of sweet memories to bring a smile on our faces for atleast ten more years.I know that those college days will never be back and this is what makes all this more difficult. But, we hope to make the best out of every single time we meet.

LOVE YOU GUYS!!!
'YEH DOSTI HUM NAHI TODENGE....
TODENGE DUM MAGAR TERA SAATH NA CHODENGE...

THE NEHRU TROPHY BOAT RACE


The traditional boat race in Kerala also known as Nehru trophy boat race is held every year in association with the festival Onam. This race is held in the backwaters of kuttanadan in Alappuzha(also known as Allepy). Winning this boat race is a matter of prestige for every boat club in the state. Also the prizes are also very attractive with more and more sponsors coming every year. This year 52nd Nehru trophy boat was held on 12th august.

History

The History of Nehru Trophy Boat Race is associated with the visit of late Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru, then Prime Minister of India to Alappuzha. The first race was an impromptu one conducted in 1952 in honour of Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru who visited Alappuzha. In that race of snake boats, ‘Nadubhagam Chundan’ stood first. Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru who was thrilled and excited by the performance of the oarsmen, jumped into the ‘Nadubhagam Chundan’, forgetting all security arrangements. The boat proceeded to the boat jetty carrying the Prime Minister. After his return to Delhi, a few months later in December 1952, Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru donated a silver trophy, which is a replica of a snake boat placed on a wooden abacus. The trophy bears the following inscription above his signature; “To the winners of the boat race, which is a unique feature of community life in Travancore - Cochin.” This trophy later came to be known as Nehru Trophy, and in fond memory of great Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru, the people of Alappuzha celebrate the Nehru Trophy Boat Race every year.

Boats and Composition of the team

The boats of Kerala are known after their shapes, sizes or purposes. The Chundaanvallam is so called because of its pointed prow. The term snake boat comes from its stern, which represents the raised, the hood of a snake and its length . The front end of this type of boat will be tapering in shape and the rear end will be very high from the water level. They have a length of about 60-65 meters and a capacity carrying hundred to hundred and ten people during the race time. The stern is majestically caparisoned and decorated with a flag and brass ornaments. Silken parasols are arrayed along the entire length of the boat. There will be almost 95 oarsmen, 5 Amarakkar (Controllers) and 10 'Nilakkar' (persons supposed to enhance the vigour and enthusiasm of the participating oarsman). It has got a resemblance to the shape of a snake, when it advances in a competition and hence became popular as snake boats. Snake boats are the traditional battle vessels of Kerala known as Chundan vallams . They were originally designed as a naval vessel used for battle.

Team effort

For many of us team effort is when India wins a cricket series. But I feel this race has team effort more than any other sport. There are about 95 oarsmen all of whom have to execute their job simultaneously. If not done simultaneously, the speed won’t be maintained and also the boat will become difficult to control. For doing this simultaneously there is no synchronization clock as we have in our electronic circuits, It is the Vanchi pattu(the boat song) that helps them to execute simultaneously with the group. It is really very interesting to see all these people rowing simultaneously as if it is some machine that is working. 5 people who steer the boat are also of great importance and their action is to control the direction of the boat. In case when the boat has to go straight and if among 95 oarsmen, one of them makes a mistake, it is the controller’s duty to rectify it immediately otherwise it may cumulatively change the coarse of the boat.

Then come another 10 people who do nothing directly to the boat but are in fact extra weight in the boat. These ten men are responsible lifting the morale of the team. They sing songs at the highest pitch they can even if their boat is at the last place. Apart from this, it is their song that helps people execute their job simultaneously.

VANCHIPATTU (SONG OF THE BOATMAN)

These highly rhythmic songs were created to keep up the spirits of the boatmen. The rhythm of these songs blends perfectly with the movement of the oars and to keep up devotional, mythological or relating to rustic life styles. Every snake boat has about ten singers keeping time with traditional percussion instruments
One famous song I can think of goes like this…
Kuttanadan kunjayille’
kochu penne’ kuyill alle’
kottu vennam kurall vennam, kuravva vennam

oh thi thi thara thi thi thaye thi thaye’ thaka thaka thom.
(these lines are repeated at different tempos… from slow to fast)
Let me try to translate it in English…
In the back waters of Kuttanadan
There lived a young girl and a young guy who was a good singer too.
There should be drumbeats, people shouting in the background (for what occasion, even I’m not sure because I don’t know the full version of the song).
Thi thi thara… is the rhythm they are all shouting…

Watching this race from the gallery is a real treat to both our eyes and brain. I was really enthralled by watching so many men in action in such a good manner. Their team effort is indeed a lesson to learn. The most important that, I’m sure, will remain in my mind and heart for a long time will be the ten 'Nilakkar' (persons supposed to enhance the vigour and enthusiasm of the participating oarsman). Never before I realized the importance of such people. Their song is still on the tip of my tongue. Kuttanadan kunjayille’….

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

CHILD LABOUR....

That children are the most gentle, the most innocent and the most pure hearted beings is not a debatable issue at all. But, what is debatable is the ban of child labour w.e.f october 10, 2006. Some see no reason in debating about this issue because it restores their work-free childhood but, does it neccessarily mean a happy childhood. The debate begins...
Many of the child labourers face abuse physically, psychologically and sexually on a regular basis. In an incident in Mumbai, a domestic child labourer was beaten to death by her employers just for trying on some lipstick. This ban would surely lessen (by a huge amount) the abuses these children go through. But it doesnot ensure them a happy childhood.
Most of the children who work are forced to do so by their circumstances. Circumstances such as an ailing or dead parent or a huge family or insufficiency of income of the parents etc.. Such children when stripped of their jobs and salaries will starve (in some cases entire family will). Some of them may even be driven into crimes. Childlabour gives them benefits such as food, clothing, shelter and a salary that (in some cases) an entire family lives on though it makes them more vulnerable to abuse.
The ban of child labour has larger issues to it. This ban must be strictly enforced and violators should be prosecuted. Most of the times (esp in India) laws (such as these) are not enforced strictly. Surprise inspections should be conducted in all the potential places. Another thing that should be done for this ban to be more effective is cutting off the supply(of child labourers). This can be done by providing free and compulsary education for all children under 14(a constitutional obligation), then children cannot be at other place except school. Now the question that arises is: Are there enough schools (state-run) for providing education to all children ? It is sad to believe (that it is true) that 42000 state-run schools donot have their own buildings . Not only this about one lakh schools have only one classroom. How will so ill-equipped schools provide education? With even the basic amenities like blackboard, furniture and toilets missing these schools are unfit to provide education. It would be utterly foolish to expect these freed child labourers to join private schools. Now the question that arises is what will these freed children do? They will resort to begging or crimes to feed their stomachs and their families.
One way to help these children is to allow them to work while safegaurding them against abuse. An association for child labourers should be formed and a set of rights and rules for behaviour towards them should be set and the government should take responsibilty to regularly conduct inspections and punish all the offenders. Thus, even these poor little chaps can work with dignity of labour. The other (for all the obvious reasons a better) way out is that the government should pump a lot of funds in order to improve the infrastructure of these schools. The constitutional obligation of compulsary and free education should be strictly enforced. The govt. should provide means of earning for these children after school hours. The children should be assigned suitable work for pay. This way the exploitation of children can be checked while providing them income. Both the solutions are practicable only if the govt. realises its responsibility towards these children. The laws(reg. child labour ) should be strictly enforced else this ban will be of no good.
We all have grown up listening to the saying "TODAYS CHILDREN ARE TOMORROWS CITIZENS" and it does not require great brains or logic to realise that children are the future. It is high time for the govt. to realise this and work for eradication of child labour and provision of free education to all the children, in other words for a better tomorrow.


Tuesday, August 15, 2006

The number you have called is busy please stay on the line or call again later


As on every other day his mobile rang to wish him GOODMORNING. No,it was not the alarm on his mbile. He never wakes up for the alarm. It was a call. His day began, as every other day would,filled with phone calls. His mobile rings only once or twice in a day yet he is all day talking on his mobile. No,he doesn't make all the calls. You must be wondering...How this is possible? But there is a way. He always has a call waiting, so he hangs up one and takes the other. So,his mobile doesn't ring. Do you think am exaggerating? You will say am not when I reveal the name of the person am talking about. Am talking about none other than nikhil mohan (member of this blog- fool proof). Now you know very well that am not exaggerating. All of those who have called him have always heard the busy message(mentioned as the title of this post).

Lets try to solve the 'who he talks to mystery?' He frequently gets calls from his father,mother and sister(younger). But you know what! Even they have to wait for him to end the previous call!!! Lets assume that he always talks to his friends. Let me tell you before hand that he has a lot of friends and too many of his friends are girls. But even they are put on call waiting. Then,he must always be talking to his girlfriend. Nope even his girlfriend waits. Who does he talk to all the time? He continuosly talks to all of them. There is a lot of competetion among all the three categories mentioned above. Now guess who wins?............................................ THE LUCKIEST!!!

Now coming to the 'what he talks?'mystery. Well you can hear him talking about real estate, politics, jobs, business, scams, history, films, music, stock market, emerging technologies, exams, people, events and the list goes on. He talks everything from the most sophisticated to utter rubbish. You can even hear him talk in many languages... sometimes english, sometimes hindi, sometimes telugu and sometimes malayalam(for those who donot know he is from Kerala).
And now for the 'why do so many people want to talk to him(inspite of 'call waiting')?' mystery. He is one of the sweetest persons you will ever meet in your life. I say 'you will ever meet in your life' because persons as sweet as him are very rare to find. He is the first person you would like to call in case of any problem(once you know him). He is one of the persons you can stand by and trust in any circumstance. Talk with him and you can talk for days and you will not run out of conversation. He always has the right things to tell you at the right time. His words are so cushioning that if you get used to them you will call wait endlessly to talk to him.
Many researchers have claimed that mobile phone is injurious to brain or whatever. I call upon all the researchers to conduct their examinations and researches on nikhil as there are a very few people in this world who use their mobile as much as he does.

LONG LIVE NIKHIL!! LONG LIVE HIS MOBILE!!!

Sunday, August 06, 2006

CHILUKUR BALAJI TEMPLE A.K.A. VISA TEMPLE

Very rarely I visit temples, yet I’ve been to many important temples in India like Madurai Meenakshi, Kashi, Thirupati etc. My recent Visit was to Chilukur Balaji Temple. Of course the visit was not a pre planed one as usual, I had gone there only to accompany Hari. Hari had a wish fulfilled, so he was supposed to make 108 rounds around the temple. The general rule of the temple is that you have to make 11 rounds when you ask for a wish to be fulfilled. Once this wish is fulfilled you have to make 108 rounds.
Preparations
Apart from wearing clean clothes, head bath etc. (which are essential to go to any other temple), and one has to carry a book or a paper and a pencil or pen. This is to record the no. Of revolutions (!!!) you make around the temple. And Yeah! You must also have a clear idea of the Purpose of your visit. I had thought of three wishes to ask for. That means I got to make thirty-three rounds. If any of these wishes come true I have to make 108 rounds for each wish. That means if all the wishes come true I got to make 324(3*108) rounds. Actually I had many more wishes to ask for but considering the risk and significance of my wishes, I restricted myself to3!
Getting there
The best way to go to Chilukur is to go to Mehdipatnam and then go by an exclusive bus to Chilukur Balaji temple. The bus stop is right in front of elixir bakery. The route that the bus takes is the one by which we used to go to college every day for 4 years: Oh!! This made me nostalgic. I wanted all those college days back. But 4km away from college, the bus took a diversion. Only Chilukur Balaji and I know how much I wished the bus hadn’t taken the diversion. The route from there was very beautiful and sceneric.
The difference
After 45 minutes of journey from mehdipatnam we reached Chilukur. As I got down, I could see what makes this temple different from others. There were hoardings and advertisement banners of many coaching institutes, which teach JAVA, SAP, .Net, etc. Also Advertisements of consultants for overseas studies, advertisements of men’s hostel, women’s hostel etc. There were a no. Of young men and women wandering around. Wandering around because I found many so-called-couples there. Should I call them yuppies!! Of course I can as some of them might have come with their wish fulfilled.
For a moment I wondered whether I’ve come to a wrong place, in a college festival or a job fair. I confirmed once I got inside the temple. I was taken aback at first. So many people were rushing, walking fast around the temple with some of them running around. We found gaps and went for ‘Dharshan’. This is the only temple probably where you don’t need to give any ‘Dhakshina’. I asked for my 3 wishes. Now came the difficult task of walking around the temple. 33 seemed easy! I started walking at the speed of the crowd. 5 minutes passed and I made only 2 rounds. That means it is going to take one hour to complete the whole thing. I thought of giving up. The Pujari announcing that we can make half the rounds today and the rest latter followed this. Very cooperative pujari! I thought for a while and continued at least to make half of them. I started walking fast and as I walked I made some strange observations.
Unlike other temples, which are meant for oldies, this temple had many young people, which make 90% of the visitors. The average age of the crowd would be somewhere between 23 and 25. People were walking very fast as if they would miss some train if they don’t. I could hear some people saying “81 over”, “only 35”, “10 more left” etc. of course they were referring to the no.of rounds they have made. I heard names of many places most of them in the U.S. like “ Mississippi! Such a cold place yaa”, “Illinois! Good!” “ Is that a state university in Chicago?” etc. Those were the places where many are willing to go for higher studies. And then “when?” This is a big question as they were asking for their date of appointment in the American consulate for visa (the reason for which many come here) or their departure. “21st July”,“23rd July”, “3rd august” etc. came the answers. And also there was one stranger thing in this temple. Apart from the usual devotional songs I could hear some songs like “it’s the time for disco”, “bheegay hoont therey” etc. which of course came from the I-pods or the mobile phones of these youngsters.
By the time I made 20, I felt a little tired. I thought of giving up. But then, I saw a limp man walking with the help of his crutches. He was also in the crowd making rounds around the temple. I followed him. By the time he made one, I made 2 or sometimes 3. I wondered when he would finish making rounds. Yet in his face and body language, I could find the determination to finish. His determination was my first source of inspiration. The second source being the pretty lady in orange and copper sulphate blue dress. She too seemed very determined. I couldn’t take my eyes off her, such se** (oh! Sorry govinda! Govinda! ) And beautiful she was. Then I looked at Hari who also seemed determined to finish. I looked at the other devotees and drew inspiration from them. I kept walking at a speed of one round in 45-50 seconds. Two hours passed and I had completed 108! Rounds. Then I reminded myself that I was supposed to do only 33. I’m done with 75(108-33) extra rounds. Then I thought ‘ let this be a down payment. The rest will be paid in installments as and when my wishes come true.
I wonder how successful GOD would be in granting my wishes, but this visit to the temple thought me what determination was, especially the determination shown by the limp man. Also a sense of satisfaction as I finished 108 rounds made me happy. I’m as every body who finishes their 108 rounds would be happy. I wondered for a moment how much satisfaction that limp man might have got. For I also wished that my 75 rounds down-payment be transferred into his account.